微笑問答 Connecting with Smiles

Dear Jock and Ben

May I ask you a very complex question?
When we talk about intimate relationship,
if both side of us disagree with each other, and
very insist on each side's own idea,
but we need a decision for thing's going on,

Some people will return to play a role,
and to choose the "best" or the "proper" decision.
Some people will submit themselves to the stronger side
and depress themselves.

Beside to share the true feelings to each other,
can we do more?
How do you deal with this trouble in your life, between Ben and you?
Then both side will feel more comfortable and be respected?

Loved Dodo.



Dear Dodo,

Nice to hear from you.
It is difficult to answer your question by email ... but I will try.

>Beside to share the true feelings to each other, can we do more?
>How you deal with this trouble in your life, between Ben and you?
>Then both side will feel more comfortable and be respected?

The key for Ben and me is that
we make our connection with each other
the most important element.
So, then we don't get into struggles
when we each have a difference of opinion,
or different wishes for what to do.

We always say,
"it doesn't matter what we do,
as long as we are together, loving each other."
So, we respect our different points of view,
and when we disagree,
we respect each other and don't fight each other.
As long as we are together,
we are happy,
even in middle of different points of view.

Love from us both, Jock(nBen)